[a56]

Hi new here,my husband is a cocaine addict and is out of control, he suffers from depression & just looks so lost in his eyes.we have been together 20 years and im tertified were we are going to end up. I feel so lost,alone,scared,confused & guilt ridden. I blame myself for the situation we are now in, i wrongly shamed him & accused him of cheating. Im ashamed of my actions,ive no1 to talk to so desperate to save him,no idea what im ment to do ???? my body is bairly functioning.

[fayzey]

Hi there, didn’t want to not reply, hope you’re ok and I don’t know the details but try not to blame yourself – I’m trying to remember with my partner that we can’t save them, it has to come from inside them – easier said than done though I know when you can see they are throwing everything away. Does your husband say he wants to get any help or admit he has a problem? Sounds like it’s been going on a while so you must be exhausted with it all, so draining – is there anyone you could trust to open up to then you would have someone to talk to xx

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