Someone please help. My partner has been prescribed zapain and diazepam for about 3 years now..he stockpiles and misuses both medicines alongside drinking. Although I know he would never hurt our children, I sometimes wonder what state he will be in when i get home from work and its really starting to take its toll on me. I have tried talking with him..not in an accusatory way but he lies to me, hides alcohol and feels like me wanting to help him is a criticism so just makes nasty comments and drags up the past to make me feel equally as rubbish. If it wasnt effecting me so badly I would let him deal with it in his own time but I just dont know what to do. I just want someone to tell me what I should be doing..I feel like I’m slowly being torn apart and I am so worried about the effect it will have on my children. Please someone, give me some advice!