The lying cheating and deception is all part of the addiction. Do not enable your partner. Only he can make the decision to stop. Make sure you stay strong and take care of yourself. You don’t say whether your partner lives with you. Ask him whether he wants to stop and maybe go to his GP with him. It’s important that you look after yourself. Only he can make the choice to stop. Keep using this forum, we all understand the pain and heartache you are going through. X