[icarus-trust]

Hi Peartree Girl,

Thank you so much for posting. I’ts really sad to read how hard life is for you right now. It does sound like you could do with talking with someone who would understand what you are going through.

I work for a charity called The Icarus Trust, that offers support to people who are in similar situations to yourself. Please contact us and you can talk with one of our experienced trained people. Talking might help you to know what to do next as well as finding out what other support is available to you.

You can contact The Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org

Good luck. I hope you can get some help.

[lastresort]

Same for me. It’s a nightmare. Luckily we don’t live together. We see each other weekends have a great time then he goes home and uses for a few days. Same again and gone on too long. It’s becoming a very boring vicious cycle. Addicts are very very selfish when In active addiction. I give him zero money and refuse to see him if I know he’s using. After two failed rehab attempts I’ve decided to end it for good if he doesn’t commit to recovery. Life’s too short to keep getting dragged into the chaos. I’ve learnt a lot about the disease of addiction but I’ll only be by his side if he commits to recovery. Heroin robs everything from possessions to health and is soul destroying for all involved. They are not to blame for the addiction but they are responsible for their recovery and without recovery heroin will destroy everything in its path without any exceptions. I was happy before I met him and if need be I’ll ensure I’m happy again with or without him. I don’t mean to sound harsh and I’m very supportive when he’s engaging in recovery but I will provide nothing that will help him continue to feed the addiction because it will never ever be satisfied. We can drive ourselves crazy obsessing about them but they’re the only ones that can change it and. Without putting recovery first then everything else is usually lost eventually. Blaming anyone but themselves is easier. Your post other than being married sounds like my relationship x

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