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Hello! I’m a very private person but at this point I don’t know what else to do. I’ve suspected my boyfriend/kids father has been using coke(cocaine) for about 5 months now. I suspected it due to the fact I know him so well that I know when he even had a sip of alcohol. But this time around he is a completely different person. He used to be angel (we have been together almost 6 years) .. now he’s a monster. He beats me , uses me, manipulates , believes his own lies, cheats just everything. Yes I’ve called police a thousand times nothing works! I don’t know what else to do. He will NOT admit to using coke. But here’s the thing, yes i know creepy but i placed hidden cameras and found the proof I needed. When I confronted him it wasn’t pleasant. I tried to explain to him it was honestly and truly for my kids and my safety (past family members in jail for murder due to being on coke so it very well frightens me).. anyways when I confronted him
I couldn’t even get a word in and he blew up tears was rolling down his face and he went downstairs and then to work and haven’t heard from him. All I’m asking is how to get somebody help that won’t admit to there issue? .. also, how do I remove him from the home (if cops don’t arrest him he will be back.) I don’t know if it’s because covid time that they don’t care but I’m so scared. He is a monster and doesn’t care the consequences right now, he makes me feel worthless like nobody will ever want me..whoever read my story thank you please don’t judge I used to be the one screaming at the dumb girl in then movie like “just leave him!!!!!”, but when you’re actually in the situation it’s a whole other ball game.
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Privategirl I couldn’t agree more with when your in the situation it’s a whole other ball game. And like you I use to be the one saying leave.
Woman’s aid will be a good place for you to start and they’ll advise you what to do.
You may want to get a non molestation order out on him.
If he isn’t on the tenancy or mortgage it’ll be easier to get him to leave.
No one on here will judge you pretty much everyone is in the boat.
Stay safe
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