[thistim3]

What is your experience with rehab? What actually happens there?  What about helped or didn’t help.  Do you recommend it? How much does it cost?  How long is the stay?

[navy]

Hi thistim3

i think rehab only works if the addict really wants to quit and become sober as I think it’s a choice if they want help to get that devil off thier shoulder. They need to follow a program and be encouraged how well they are doing and having someone who has been there going through what they think at the time is impossible as the cravings are too much to bere they can help with suggestions and ideas of what to do.

I wish that more of our loved ones could see how much help is there if only they are willing to accept they need help and more importantly want the help.

I don’t know how long your  loved one has been an addicted but it’s draining for us as we are not specialist in this but just trying to get through day by day hoping and praying that a trigger doesn’t arrive at a bad time or place for them and that they can handle that devil chirping away at them.

take care

navy x

[cazzah]

I am also interested in peoples experience of rehab for their family members. Our son’s addiction has got increasingly worse and has now taken over his life. He wants to go to rehab. I have no idea really how you find the right one or how successful they are. If anyone has been through this and is able to advise I’d be grateful

thank you

[jo@adaptoxford.org.uk]

<span style=”color: #222222; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;”>Hi there, this sounds like a very difficult situation for you and I am sorry. I know of a great charity that supports people like yourselves nationwide. The family support programme is all remote and they help many families a year. Please see link and fill in the referral and someone will endeavour to respond within 24 hours. </span><span style=”font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; color: #1155cc;”>https://adaptoxford.org.uk/<wbr />the-icarus-programme/. </span>

They also offer free treatment for the person suffering with addiction.<span style=”font-size: 12pt; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;”> . They are based in Oxford. Please have a look on their website – you can also fill in a referral form. </span><span style=”font-size: 12pt; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; color: #1155cc;”>https://adaptoxford.org.uk</span><span style=”font-size: 12pt; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;”>. I know numerous people who have had support from them and done exceedingly well.  </span>

 

 

[jo@adaptoxford.org.uk]

<span style=”color: #222222; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;”> I know of a fantastic charity that would love to support you . They are based in Oxford. Please have a look on their website – you can also fill in a referral form. </span><span style=”font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; color: #1155cc;”>https://adaptoxford.org.uk</span><span style=”color: #222222; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;”>. I know numerous people who have had support from them and done exceedingly well. They offer free treatment.</span>

They also offer support to familes. <span style=”font-size: 12pt; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;”>The family support programme is all remote and they help many families a year. Please see link and fill in the referral and someone will endeavour to respond within 24 hours. </span><span style=”font-size: 12pt; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; color: #1155cc;”>https://adaptoxford.org.uk/<wbr />the-icarus-programme/</span>

[Lottier]

I feel rehab completely altered his mindset, while there he got so used to people saying what he did or said was right, and he interpreted it as everyone else in your life is the problem which is why you use, he said some people didn’t return to their families and started new lives miles away to stay clean

The second time he came out really determined to stay clean but he did not really come back into the family life, it feels like he was institutionalised at rehab and that’s how he copes, he’d stay up in the bedroom, buy his own food, cook his own meals, go running, go gym, up at 4.30 bed at 8

He’s found God and reads lots of spiritual help books so feels he’s the best version of himself, which is amazing but it’s almost at the detriment to our family I feel

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