[jane1975]

I’m new to this site. My husband has been using cocaine (it turns out) since I’ve known him. We’ve been together 6 years and married 3. He has tried to stop many times but never succeeded. Almost a month ago I asked him to leave. It was all too much. He took money set aside for bills and scored. I went ballistic when I found out. I let him come home 2 weeks later and he’s been attending CA meetings and has a start date for counselling in a few weeks for his depression.

Last night he bought some. He says it was a slip up but I’m unsure. I want to support him but I feel like I’ve ‘read the book and bought the t shirt’. He needs me to be strong but I don’t know if I have it in me ????

[jane1975]

My mistake, didn’t realise I posted the above. So, to continue….

I’ve told my husband how I feel and that I feel so stressed out by it all. His response was ‘if you want to call it a day, let me know. You can always bail out.’ I mean what are you meant to say to that? I know he has some mental health issues going on that he can’t speak to me about but it’s so hard to live with. Any advice out there?

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