Hello Forum. My son was 30 yesterday. He has a long standing poly drug abuse history. I’ll try to be brief. He has a baby with a woman who he met whilst using, who I also beliefs uses prescription drugs. My son stated buying fentaynl on the web, which he tried to stop himself. He struggled to do this and broke down resulting in him having a psychotic break down. He was saectioned under the MHA. It’s been a very hard 6 months for everyone.
I have ended my relationship with his partner and sacrificed having a relationship with my first grandchild. I feel this woman has used my son, and continues to manipulate him through his daughter. Myself his dad and brother have tried to be supportive but I believe he is not been honest and I haven’t been able to contact him since yesterday. Usual pattern of using has emerged , I eoknt go in to detail.
He has engaged with drug services but I think his co – dependent relationship with his baby mum,, trumps everything. I feel completely broken as a mum. Part of me wants to cut ties altogether but I know I can’t do this I love him and worry for him. But I’m losing a grip on reality I’m afraid . Any advice would help. TIA