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I’m a mother of a 30 year old who abuses me financially and mentally to buy drugsso and when under the influence I’m scared of him this has been going in a long time since he was a teenager I am at my wits end today iv just discovered he has took my TV to porn and last night threatened to set fire to my home as I would not give him anymore money so I have kicked him out of my home I’m am broken hearted today but feel we getting no where trying to help him he has to help himself so pls be aware we love these people but we can’t help them I’d they won’t help them self’s

[confusedcom83]

This is true, I am sorry to hear this, my partner is the same age and has also been doing this for a very long time. I don’t think he has stolen yet but he has spent an awful lot of money on his addiction and sees no problem with it.

We had a long conversation the other day he asked for me to stop doing two things as this is meant to be the reason why he does it, even though he was taking drugs long before I came on the scene. I asked for one in return, that he does some research on addiction and makes up his own mind on it. It lasted hours as he decided last night to go straight from work in to town sending me a message saying it won’t be one of those nights that you worry about me and then rolled in at 8am this morning, I have been so worried. He has never been this late. I kept my calm with him even though it appeared he wanted to start an argument. I told him I was done and I can’t live like this anymore, he changed his tune and said he will try he just hasn’t dealt with the pregnancy well. Then I got verbal abuse because he was going to be late for work and I needed a minute to help him look for his keys and then had more abuse thrown because I didn’t know where his sun glasses were. I can’t cope anymore

[2468]

It’s difficult but u need to walk away ad ur important and deserve a life I’m stuck because I am a mother and it’s my son either way we both don’t deserve how we are being treated. Have u anywhere u can go to get your head together and think about what you want. It’s so difficult to watch someone you love doing the damage they are to themselves and not realising what they doing to themselves at least ur trying and getting support on here it does help to talk

[ea2256]

Hi,I saw your reply to my post and just wanted see how you are holding up.I know situations like ours take time to figure out so I hope and pray that you have the strength to decide what is best for YOU!I finally confronted my love and as expected it did not go well.Got yelled at,told bad things and was accused of invading there privacy for trying to confirm my suspicions.Just want you to know you are not alone either.Anytime you need to vent,need a friend or just feel a need to escape I am here to listen

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