[luxurioussnake]

I’m sorry you’re going through this.

I don’t think he will “go quietly” and leave the house without a fight. My ex refused to leave the house for months after I finally snapped and left him, until I gave an ultimatum. Your ex can stay with a friend until he finds somewhere more permanent, but living with you, drinking around you and sending you mean texts is not acceptable and can’t continue.

He has put you through hell. The very least he can do is leave and give you breathing space, but he sounds too selfish for this.

If he’s anything like my addict ex, you may get suicide threats, especially when he’s under the influence. My ex also self harmed and walked around the house topless so I would see the cuts. I used to have to check he hadn’t killed himself. It was absolute hell and I ended up in hospital with mental health problems. I don’t want you to go through anything like that.

Please enlist some family/friends and all get together to tell this man he needs to move out by the end of the week. You deserve to have your home back. Tell his friends/family you’re worried about him and let them look after him.

I know it sounds cold. It isn’t meant to. I just think you’ve put up with more than enough and it’s time to put you first.

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