I would like a bit of advice if u sit and try to have a conversation about Coke that u know ur partner did few months back cos u had caught him out but u still inside wasent really happy bout the circumstances why would he get defensive really o should be able to openly talk if ur realionship was a long one not wanting to talk to me makes me wonder wether or not he really is still doing a bit cos if Uve broken up then surely that is necessary the break
Up was on various behavioural and supportive issues and even today when he came for a chat he wasent comfortable to be open bout it