This is the first time I have written here or anywhere so excuse my ramblings but I suppose now is the time I need to get all my frustrations out..my husband is an alcoholic as I write this he is flopped on the sofa he has been a drinker for about 20 yrs and did give up for a while but the last 2yrs has been a living hell finaly he has sought help and his detox starts on the 29th of this month he knows he has a big problem and hates what he has become I know that it would be dangerous for him to stop suddenly but I really cant wait for detox to begin most days I feel like banging my head against a brick wall as when he is drunk everything is an argument even the most simple thing like tea or what to watch on the tv its like looking after a spoilt sulky child.Alcohol has really ruined so much of not only his life but mine and my children I really hope that he can stay sober this time as if I don’t see any change soon then I am going to finally divorce him