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Ele

This is not you, I am in a similar situation with my wife and lock down is nothing to do with it, that is just an excuse. My wife of 5 years has chose drinking neat vodka through the day and then lied to my face when I ask her about it. Unfortunately their are two ways about this, he either wants help and let’s you help him OR you like me are wasting your life staying with someone who clearly has chosen boose over you.

I have given my wife an ultimatum it’s the drink or me, make your choice. She told me straight in an argument, I don’t have a problem if you don’t like it you can leave.

So who’s the mug, him for drinking or you for staying and putting up with it. If the tables were changed would he stay??

I hope he sees sence, if not…

[rosesht36]

Hi ele1215

Your not alone my husband has a on going alchole problem and cocaine addiction it’s not you remember that, its him his way sadly of coping and being here is a good start for you to focus on you and your well being. Your stronger than you make yourself out to be because your a loving wife and support him thoe he may be unkind with words it’s the drink and drugs talking not him remember that. Hold your head up high and come on here to talk as we all suffer the same pain and together we will make it through. Hang in there

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