H,i
Thank you for posting and sharing your story. I can see how hard life has been for you and your partner plus having to make the very difficult decision to stop enabling your son.
If you feel that it would be helpful to talk with people who would understand what you are going through, then do contact The Icarus Trust. We are a charity that provides support to people like yourselves who are having to deal with the impact of a loved one’s addiction. Maybe talking to one of our experienced trained volunteers might be of help.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the very best to you.
I just read your post and realised you are totally right, I have been enabling my son all this time, I hope you strong enough to say No to him, im not there yet but rock bottom is very close. i send love and understanding to you and your family x
We have hit rock bottom but he hasn’t either. I feel sick he is sleeping in his car in same old clothes. I’m ferrified he’s gonna do something but enough is enough. I still pay his car insurance and tax though .. ?. X