Hi Caroline,
I am so sorry to read your post and see how sad your daughter’s drinking is making you feel. It is really hard what you are going through.
You say you don’t know what to do and I am wondering whether you have got any support for yourself? May be you would find it helpful to talk with someone who would understand what you are dealing with?
I work for a charity called The Icarus Trust. We provide support for people who are dealing with the impact of a loved one’s addiction. Please contact us and we could put you in touch with one of our trained and experienced people.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
I hope that this is helpful and wish you all the best.
The Icarus Trust