[Leigh2023]

Hi. Not sure anyone can really help but it will help to write this down.

So my boyfriend of 4 years has an ‘unhealthy relationship’ with cocaine and alcohol. He does not take coke every day but will do it maybe once/twice in a month. He says he wants to stop all together but when gets the idea in his head or someone offers it him, he can’t say no.

Since 18ish has always been off and on with coke. He used to drink excessively and has now stopped that and only drinks in a social environment rather than sitting on his own doing it.

He doesnt have to be ‘with mates’ to do this, he can sit on his own in a field and take cocaine so its not about the social side.

I have been heavily pregnant driving round looking for him in the middle of the night, he has lost his job last year and is taking it whilst working in his current job but nothing seems to give him the ‘wake up call’ I always hope he needs.

He has started going to counselling and has had 5 weeks of it now but has taken cocaine twice in that time (that I know about)

I’ve always wanted him to go to counselling so was over the moon when he wanted this as well however it hasnt kept him completely off it

His Mum doesnt help the situation as when things get heated between us and he goes back to her house, she lets him in with open arms.

What is the answer?

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