Stay strong Vonnie, It’s devastating when you first find out, talk about your world caving in.. If you have a good relationship with your son, keep talking to him, find out what help is available in your area, through your doctor’s maybe.. I buried my head in the sand about my son’s addiction, I regret not coming down harder on him in the early days and 4 yrs on he is a heroin and crack cocaine addict, totally off his head and has made my life hell for to long.. have’nt seen him for a month now, I had to get the police to him at 6am he was smashing my house up, 1st time ever i’ve called the police felt gulity as hell, but I could’nt take anymore.. I am still raw to the thing’s he was saying but that was’nt my son ” it was a monster” stay strong, don’t allow yourself to be deluded, be one step a head of him but most of all look after yourself xxx