[tory11]

Is it so horrible to just want closure just to want them to acknowledge what hurt and disruption they have caused

[redfox20]

Hi Tory i can feel your pain confusion and upset in this question ???? & i can totally relate. Can i add they won’t see what disruption they have caused while they are still in active addiction it’s only when they get clean and make better decisions will they see the impact of what they have done & sometimes this can then trigger further use or relapses due to the shame & guilt they feel. How are you? Silly question I know keep strong ❤️ Xx

[tory11]

I thought i was doing ok but anger is my feeling today i can feel it bubbling inside of me wanting to escape i need to get away asap

[tory11]

i’m just so angry that i’ll lose my home because he’s so selfish and won’t leave . i refuse to live this way any more i’m at breaking point please help advice needed

[redfox20]

Hey Tory, I’m so sorry he’s not listening to your wishes. Has he said that he definitely won’t leave? The only advice I can give you is to speak to citizens advice see what they say it’s just so difficult where he is on the mortgage. I really feel for you it’s an awful situation to be in. Could you not go somewhere for a while or stay with family to get a break from it all i know you shouldn’t have to but it would do you the world of good. X

[tory11]

Sadly no they live to far away right now and if’s m not working the bills don’t get paid . i’m just so sad and angry that i’m going to though no fault of my own sell my home and move away from my older son which breaks my heart house prices are to expensive where i live and renting is mental money . he’s not bothered to come home tonight my sons tested positive for covid i feel like i’m in a nightmare right now . Thank u for all your messages there very much appreciated.x

[redfox20]

Hey Tory. I think your best bet is to tell him your thinking of selling as he’s addiction has got way out of hand and you cannot live with him anymore, you may of already said this. This may not get any reaction from him or he may realise he needs to get help. Have a look at what’s around in the market, you never know! I wish your son better too, it can only get better, have faith. Hard I know but i always say to myself it can’t get much worse. Sending love anytime it really helps me to feeling im helping in any way as you feel so lost, and you just want all the answers. Take care x

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