Hi Goose.
My ‘husband’ was the same as you.
He eventually gave up going into work. On rare occasions he’d manage it.
He used to love his job, he was self employed and I would love to see him walk out the door in a morning with a spring in his step. Then return with a smile on his face.
That changed when he turned to alcohol and cocaine.
He had hobbies that he loved too, not anymore. Nothing seems to compare.