I’ve come to realise that you can’t help someone who won’t help themselves. I’ve been attending Adfam local support group and grim reality I’m afraid. My partner has used ver 10 years and its getting worse tbh I’ve had enough. He works but all his money goes on drugs I pay the bills and anything the children need, he pays then asks to borrow back. I’m in serious debt and am becoming extremely angry and resentful now. Will he get any help?