[worriorbutterfly]

Hey, how are things now?

[icarus-trust]

Hi Freddie,

I’m sorry to read your post and to hear how badly your fiance’s situation is affecting you. It’s sad that you are feeling guilty as what you are dealing with is very hard.

I wonder if you are able to get any help for yourself as you are obviously exhausted by the caring and the worry. May be you could talk things through with your GP.

Also perhaps you would like to contact The Icarus Trust. We are a charity that offers support to people who are living with the impact of a loved one’s addiction. May be it would help you to talk with one of our experienced trained volunteers.

You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org

I hope that you can get some help for yourself.

All the best.

[bairdy]

I stay with my mum n dad & have a girlfriend of 4-5 years but my parents don’t like her av started recovering as do has my girl I stay in darvel Ayrshire so is there anywhere I can stay with her & help the comma please

[aallan]

Hi Freddie, don’t kid your self. This is a heavy addiction and not something you can deal with. Choose loving detachment and tell him he is a grown man who can choose what’s good for him. Until then you look after yourself as it is all you have.. trust me on this…..

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