Hi Debc,
Thanks so much for your response. It’s helpful to know others can relate and recovery isn’t impossible.
The lying is one of the scariest parts to me, as you said it’s like they don’t even know they’re doing it, which makes it even harder for us to spot.
He told me he would start looking into AA/CA meetings. I’m trying to let him take ownership of finding a group so he doesn’t feel like he is being pushed, but rather doing it because be wants to.
Thanks again, be well.