Hi Chowebella,
I am in the same position as you. My mum is an alcoholic, 2-3 years now, It peeked last Christmas and she ended up in hospital, was in for a month and came out with her partner, was sober for about 6months, until she had her ‘independence’ back, and could go to the shops by herself. Now is has got really bad again, shes threatening to kill herself, she doesnt care that the doctors told her one more drink could kill her, her answer is ‘good’. (although denies the drinking).
She is now being violent to her partner, and will hardly talk to my brother or me.
we dont know what to do, and not sure how we could even go about rehab etc at the moment, but are trying to look into options to help her. The problem is ‘she doesn’t want help’
We just dont know what to do, sorry this post isnt much help, and I dont have any advice, apart from I think you are doing the right thing, and for your peace of mind that you are doing all you can do. Your not alone x