Well rehab we wouldn’t be able to afford it privately and apparently there isn’t anything he is able to do rehab wise on the nhs, yeah I’m just getting fed up with it all now to be honest, and it is excuse after excuse, like he wants to be praised for going a few days without it but it don’t work like that with me, as it’s not proving anything to me other than he obviously can’t stop like he saids he can! How do you cope? It’s just an awful situation as you know you will be better of on your own, I know I would be, it’s just plucking the courage to do it xxx