[anon2809]

Thank you for your reply. It’s so difficult isn’t it. Part of me wants to just up and leave but I am the same, I love him deeply but I can’t deal with his drinking. He has 2 children aged 15 and 20 and mine are 10 and 6 so makes life more complicated and I would literally have nothing if I left. I would have thought after what his kids went through with his wife that he would think twice about his drinking and how it will affect them. I came out of a rubbish marriage with a husband who cheated and he uses the line ‘would you rather be with a cheat’ but in my eyes, his drinking and lying about it, is just as bad, if not worse. I just can’t see an end to it.

[anon2809]

Just to add, he drinks everyday. Normally about 12 cans a night. He never appears really drunk so he thinks that ok. He has a good job and still hold that down well but the amount he drinks is just not normal. I can only imagine what state his liver is in

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