Thank you for your response. I agree that the vaping isn’t too bad, it was just the lying. He has come clean now and is trying to get off but it isn’t changing the fact I have no trust. As exams are happening I feel like it’s helping the situation as he isn’t going out, but I feel like once exams are done and it’s summer it’ll be so much worse. The drinking is bad at the moment and will get worse from here. There have been many incidents where he’s lied to me about drinking saying he hasn’t had anything and then i hear from someone he has. It’s the lying that is the worst. I think part of it is his friends who are bad influences. He hasn’t done drugs since I told him I didn’t like it. But like I said, when i’m on holiday and he’s going out with his mates what’s stopping him from doing it? and I will have no idea. I’ve realised that he’s the only one that can change himself and meanwhile I need to figure out how to not feel sick and horrible every time this happens but have no idea how to stop it.
