Hi after reading your comment it has made me realise a few things my son is 22 on coke and God knows what else… He been dabbling in drugs from the age of 16. Iv totally had enough of his lifestyle constantly lie upon lie i think he believes his own lies now.. Stealing and not giving a crap about anyone but him self.. Iv try to help as much as i can . He’s lost a good job due to to much absence and falling asleep at work. I through him out when he was 18 as i couldn’t cope anymore plus i had 5 year old which i needed to protect from all the abuse and stealing even stealing his toys to sell.. He was currently living with my brother and his girlfriend but they’ve now split up so he’s no where to go other than mates couches.. I’m i a bad parent for not taking him back. I just don’t trust him… Any advice appreciated Xxx