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I would never find out. He did such a good job fooling me. I feel really sorry for u that u had to find out on your own. That must be terrible. I hope you guys will overcome it together.
He did tell me. I couldn’t bare with his strange behavior anymore.
I’m not sure if he regrets coming out. I don’t know what he wants to do. Fortunately it’s all out now and we can go from there. I know I have to support him but I’m so angry and disappointed!
Hi, I just find out my husband has been abusing cocaine on and off for about ten years. We have been married for 8 years. I have never been around drugs and users so I’m completely blind and naive. He had some strange behavior but I thought it was alcohol. He is a good husband and a good person but he has his moments when he can get very mean and selfish. The other day he came home from poker night and he acted his weird way. I have always hated this behavior of his. His face expression was weird (pressing lips together) and his huge desire for sex but he wasn’t able to perform. At first as a good wife I was trying to helped but after the years I gave up. So he started to relieve himself on his own for hours in the bathroom. I felt very uncomfortable and angry. Every time when he went to play poker I begged him not to drink (how naive) that much. I made him to promise me no masturbation while I’m present and fully aware of it. He broke my promise every time and it caused huge arguments. The other day he came home and he was trying to do it in car. I had enough and I got very upset. And that night he came out. It has been few days since and I’m still in shock. He is the person who goes to gym on regular basis, eating healthy and being very successful in his career. I feel totally betrayed and outraged. It’s very hard for me not to give him hard time about it. After all this years. We are very close. I have nobody but him and I feel like I don’t know him. I’m very confused as well. I will do my best to help him but I don’t know how to cope with my anger and my feelings.