[bell1968]

Unfortunately he point blank refuses any professional help. “He can do it on his own” but of course he can’t!

Last time I suggested professional help he attacked me! (Literally)

When he isn’t drinking he is amazing!

When he drinks we all dread it.

[bell1968]

Don’t be stressed! This isn’t on you.

They blame you for the bad place they are in.

My husband blames me for his drinking all the time.

But don’t push him. I find this is their form of control over the situation. They made these statements and then want you to follow it up so that they can off load some more.

This isn’t on you and don’t for one minute think it is.

I have had so many years of this I have now just switched off.

Don’t be an emotional punch bag. They never take responsibility for their actions and never accept that they hurt you.

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