[bella2210]

Hello,

I’m in a very similar situation, my partner of 13 years has left our family home and gone to live with his mum to “sort himself out”, he has been clean from drugs for the most of our relationship but recently relapsed. It absolutely breaks my heart sitting here like I’m going crazy! I don’t understand why he has to leave to do it, tbh I think he’s more out of control than ever and whilst at his mums he can do as he pleases without being questioned.

I’m finding it hard not to message him, I really need to toughen up because I’m just being ignored and it’s hurting me more. I don’t get how he can just walk away from me and his son like we don’t exist anymore ????

Have you been trying to keep in touch with him? It’s hard to switch your mind off isn’t it? I wish I could just let go

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