[bluesky]

Thank you for your reply, it’s most appreciated.

Unfortunately I don’t think any kind of communication would be effective.

Two years ago I approached him regarding drinking, I said he was drinking too much as we all dreaded his behaviour on an evening.

The one evening I saw him drinking down the garden so I tried you make a joke of it and he snapped calling me all names under the sun as well as pointing out how weird I am for watching him and wether I was monitoring his drinks.

I denied it but of course I was, also had known for months of his hidin places for enpty vodka bottles but was not sure how to approach.

I went looking as I knew he was hiding something.

He has in the last 8 months stopped drinking.

I’m not sure if the medication has increased to substitute but know full well he did both at the same time.

I also in the midst of him accusing me of all sorts and calling me mental

Explained I only had concern over his health, I really am not interested in telling anyone what they can and can’t do, however I do not want any harm to come to him and that’s my only concern.

I suppose I’m trying to understand if his unreasonable behaviour is down to the meds, which he really can’t recognise and blames everyone else.

Every argument he starts with me r my two daughters is our fault not his

[bluesky]

Well done on recognising your addiction and trying to over come this.

I am not an addict and to be honest hate taking medication even when I have to.

However my partner on the other hand does not know I am aware of his codiene and co cocodamol addiction.

I don’t know what to do.

He’s very secretive and it was by chance sharing an over night bag once that I saw all the strips.

This was about 4.5 years ago and still he is doing it.

He races for the post for parcels so clearly knows when they are arriving, this might be every 2-3 weeks as he’s been using an online pharmacy.

He tried to tell me he had some sleeping tablets coming about a month ago and he was not going to be in (We both work from from home) but I went on the look recently and found evidence of coodomol.

I had an operation 6 weeks ago and was prescribed codiene

I have 5 boxes of very strong hospital prescribed.

I was shocked to find 4 of those boxes in the cupboard had all been opened and cleared.

I have not said anything.

I didn’t even use one box myself as I suffer slow transit constipation so anything strong effects me severely.

He’s moody all the time

Really nasty and snappy to my children who are not his as well as moody with me all the time.

I do think this is down to the medication.

What should I do

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