[brettt]

Hi Sapphy.

I’m Brett. Nice to ‘meet’ you.

I guess I’m way further down the line with this that you are, but what I’ve sadly learned that until your b/f wants to get well, no amount of cajoling, begging, threatening or anything else is going to make any difference. Maybe try talking to him about yourself and your feelings? An alcoholic has a tendency to make it all about them. Tell him that you are anxious and afraid. Tell him that you miss him when he’s drunk.

I don’t know if this helps, and heaven knows I’m no expert.

Take care.

x

Brett

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