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Well done – I hope that one day my husband will read this and feel the same way xxx
Whilst it is good to know that I am not the only one living this hell, it is also scary how familiar this post sounded, except there was no excuse, it wasn’t the job, the kids, it just was. How do you break the patterns though? I moved out with our son and the 2 dogs in the New Year and am now reliant on a friend’s generosity whilst he is living in our 4 bed house, unwilling to make any changes, or any decisions about how we can move on. I made the break and nothing has changed. I wish he could stop and we could be happy again.
I separated from my husband at the start of this year for the very same reason. He too believes that you’re only an alcoholic if you have a drink in the morning (which ironically he sometimes does, but thinks I don’t know). I wish I had some answers for you, but sadly I am in the same torturous turmoil myself and my children who are aged between 14 – 27 blame me for not ‘dealing’ with it before now. I hope that you and your children are ok xxx