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Yes with the dealers. We have been and paid everyone tonight about 1000. I’m hurt. I also have just been on his phone when he fell asleep (I feel awful now for going on it) deleted everyone who looked as tho they supply him coke.

I have said this but don’t know how to make it more clear, I think he needs to go to the GP as he is depressed as well as struggling with an addiction.

Yes but his dad does coke a lot and his mum is at the end of her tether.

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So it’s worse than I thought. He’s in debt, still doing and has been on and off the whole time he was trying to quit. I’m trying to not be cross as doesn’t achieve anything. I’m so disappointed, feel so hopeless and helpless

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That’s true, I hadn’t thought of that I guess. Won’t know what’s going to work until we try. Good luck to you too, please keep checking in

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I want to suggest to him about going to groups, but most of them are god related and i dont know how he is going to take that. I am thinking of going to a family support group too

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I think that’s a good idea, it will help you as well.

He’s ok. We haven’t spoke much about it but he apologised and I’ve seen him since Saturday. I am still worried out of my mind, which isn’t just going to go away. Wish he was more honest with me though, like you seem to be with your partner!

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You have been a great help to me, in seeing things from the other side. I know I don’t understand. But for someone to come in and wave it under your nose must of been difficult. This is a support network for you too, not just you providing help

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He text me last night asking me to stay away until tomrorow but then phoned me and said he didn’t want me sat at home upset on my own. His mum messaged me saying there was a family party and to come, so I left him at his stewing for a bit, enjoyed myself at his uncles and came back on and off. We haven’t spoke about it because When I got there I couldn’t be bothered. I stayed last night so hope we are going to speak about it properly today. Thanks for asking!

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Just using this to vent now Unfortunately I haven’t seen him today, he said he is no good for me and doesn’t want to be around me today, but will see me tomorrow. Probably another empty promise

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No worries, like I say I appreciate the advice. And you, keep doing what your doing and here if you need to vent

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No I appreciate it. I haven’t taken it in the wrong way at all. Honestly it’s all helpful and like I say nice to hear someone being honest from the other side. I’m going to leave him alone tonight, not text him and turn my phone off. Tomorrow morning I will go and see him to talk things through, and I think perhaps give him an ultimatum. I’m starting uni part time in September too, which means I’m going to have to start being selfish

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I know, it is crazy isn’t it. He says to me and to anyone don’t even try it once. I never have done it and wouldn’t want to. It is ruining his life already, we should be preparing for a mortgage not worrying about this. But we are. I’m glad your son has stayed away, doesn’t need those friends!

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I’m 22 and he’s 23

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I wouldn’t bring children into this, not on the cards until this isn’t a concern. It’s hard enough for me to deal with. Thank you for your help

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I have no idea, my parents saying the truth yet I don’t agree as my heart is telling me another… I never saw myself in this position and always thought I’d know what to do, but I have no clue anymore

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So this morning he phoned me apologising, I was supposed to go to his tonight 10 minutes before I’m supposed to be there. He texts ‘do you mind if you stay home tonight’ yeah actually I do.. but what’s the use or point

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