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I have no tangible proof but I KNOW my ex is on coke… reading all the posts it sounds just like my story.
8 years of marriage one day he was inlove calling me constantly and showering our kids with affection… the boom He was screaming at me not calling not coming home (trucker) suddenly he didn’t want me he cheated then screamed at me for getting legal counsel saying I was leaving him and didn’t wanna be married… then told me to go get divorce then called me screaming about some guy talking to me on Instagram.
Came home begging to reconnect was good for 2 days…two good like overly happy etc…but he kept going to his truck and locking it… random crying…he went back out on the road and a few days later back to lying mood swings etc… next thing I knew it was name calling I asked him about drugs…his reaction is why I know im right he ONLY flips out when he is caught he accused me of doing drugs called me names, said I was spreading rumors about him calling his work… he came home.AGAIN acting like a zombie with no feelings threw shit yelled ignored the kids sexually assaulted me (decided I’d do anal if I liked it or not making me scream and wouldn’t get off me I had to kick him) he denies it ever happend… beat his dog for peeing on our floor mats threw our sons bike… then disappeared came back awhile later to tell me fine get the divorce we could remarry latter… took his sbit and moved to another state with his side chick junkie…still acted like we were together until I finally was like no ur with her… he told his kids he picked “his job” over them…7 months he hasn’t seen them in 7 months…I was a stay at home mom he has left us penniless and doesn’t care. He called for awhile but it was always broken promises.to our kids and them crying so now that been over for almost 3 months… he is dodging the divorce won’t visit his family even though his grandpa has cancer. His GF is putting things In her name for him… I found out alot of other things like a years worth of lies I never knew….naturally he tells people I’m a cheating liar…I LOVED THAT MAN…THAT MAN I LOVED IS.GONE A.DEMON OWNS HIS SOUL
The buisness account thing is 100% what happened to me im a stay at home mom so it really got bad he at first would transfer a little here a little there then less then nothing its been month I had to get on gov. Assistance to feed my children im living with my family and divorcing the bastard who is trying to worm his way outta support. He has tried intimidating me and called me names for calling him on the drug use…lying cheating and belittling me gaslighting me etc. He threatened to get 50/50 knowing id still have to do EVERYTHING cause he is a trucker never home but he wouldn’t have to give me a dime But his job makes it impossible for him to get custody so now he is extra pissed. He is a demon and honestly I hate him now and he was the love of my life. I got a lawyer and a protective order for me and the children because man he is scary
I’ve been married 8 years I have 2 kids. One day it was like my world fell apart he is a long haul trucker so it took me longer to see signs because he isnt home much irregular sleep etc. Is not unusual for that life. I still have no proof but my gut knows. He has become EVERYTHING he despises. I went from the love of his life to the reason for his misery “I ruined his happiness”. He was an extremely loyal man he has now cheated on me with his ex best friends fiance he has volatile outbursts he stays away but in one place for ridiculously long periods like I truly believe his truck breaks down always in the same town…simple fixes take weeks to fix and he completely stopped financially supporting us (im a stay at home.mom) he says oh ill transfer $ from the buisness account on Monday then Monday comes and ohh ummm my checks negative and apparently has been for MONTHS…he goes a week without calling the kids then lies and says he has been calling everyday. He hung up on my 7 year old and lied about it. He blames depression…coming from a guy that won’t admit to having seasonal allergies. Im sure he needed an excuse to guilt me into not leaving him over his horrific treatment of myself our kids and whole family.
I filed for divorce now and he only cares about child support begging me not to ask for child support… the man that would give his children elaborate gifts before doesnt even feed them now. Ive had to get food stamps and move in with family. He had his car repossessed and has collection agencies calling everyday.
His excuse for his bad choices (he has yet to admit to drugs) is I wont change so he can’t change…I take all his happiness away…being with me is hard… I trigger his anger by having emotions or saying things he doesn’t like.
I started believing myself to be a soul sucking monster woman that I was so horrible I made him stop loving me and start pulling away from even his kids. Until enough people opened my eyes to the reality of drugs and I did my research now that I have confronted him he has cut all contact with me and is hiding from our divorce… my life is spiraling