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Oh dear lord…..please try and get off the drugs…I think you are a remarkable person for getting this far…and im sure your kids think their mummy is too… Its time to think about getting you better.. and its up to him to get himself better…..Love can be painful alone, but better alone and clean, able to take care of your kids, than with a man who obviously isnt ready to get help…you do matter hunni, and you are worth helping yourself, you DO matter….LET US KNOW HOW THINGS ARE GOING….XXXXXXXX

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I think your right worrying about your grandchild….Is she a good mother??? Does she put the little one first??? Im sure you worry about the impact its having on your grandchild! Stay strong for that little one….here if you need to talk x

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Hi All, well where do we start….reading Xena’s plight has made me cry…cry for the mother and the son she can now only see in prison…and crying for the person who lost their life….What the hell is going on out in our streets….and why did OUR children think the decision to try these hellish substances was good??? I grieve for the son I had…He went AWOL last week for 2 nights, turned up at my sisters asking for money….I have told ALL family not to give him anything…..then begged to come back…..he is home but has court next month, and I know he will get a sentence…..i hate the life he leads, i hate the lying, I hate the thieving….and I hate the person he has become…..I yearn to get my son back, and will never give up on him, but i WILL NOT play any part of his sick lifestyle!!!

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Max how are things at the moment????

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Aww feel for all us parents having to go through this hell….But the biggest thing for me is I am and have been his enabler..giving in, money, buying clothes , paying his debts etc…. well not anymore..I will not let him drag me down with him… Its hard, but my son is 23, and as such an adult…he makes his choices…the next thing for me is to kick him out….and the way I feel at the moment, It wont be long!!! Be strong. and look after YOU….its their choice what they put in their bodies….its their consequences….but its still our hearts that get broken! Im so glad I found this site….just talking makes me feel I am not alone…so if I can support someone else along the way, its all good…..take care all you mums and dads, and partners of users….xxxx

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Thankyou so much ladies, I cant tell you how heart warming it is to know that someone took the time to reply…This morning whilst getting ready, I had a complete breakdown…..It seems in some way or other we are all living with this hell…..I have stopped giving money and requested ALL my family do the same….The sleeping is the same Sad and tired, but I have a little one aswell so I put on a very different face for her….What I will say is its great to finally speak to others in the same boat..ive looked at where my nearest support group is and I will be going..because I matter too…..we all matter xxxx

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