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I’m sorry Kate that things are this difficult been there to many times unfortunately. U came to the right site. We are here for you. Hang strong Kate for as long as you can . Ur son will need you more than you will need him .

Keep posting

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Well that’s profound . Maybe Ill ???? in to addiction. I ordered a book beyond addiction but it is late arriving. I attend a family meeting and have scheduled one that’s recommended in Australia that’s about tools etc. It’s on Wednesday.

I will check out the YouTube and ask “ bugger- lugs” to attend a newbies zoom meeting again.

All other suggestions welcome

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I’m good it has been great listening to his BS and seeing him becoming his old self. It was a very fragile fairytale.

He don’t have no drugs as yet.

Thinking like an addict is a bit fcuked up for me. I lived with one for The best part of 24 years that’s enough education for ME at this stage.

I thank you all for keeping it real especially for ME 🙂

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Zero the same dealer who was at the house. Just found money in his pocket money he swore yesterday he never had.

Well he never got the drugs – dealers never wait around so hopefully he will sell to someone else!,,,,

People said that he clean sample would Not mean he had stopped. And they were right.

Surely the longer he is off the better it will be!,,,,

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He says he wants to stop in fact he says he has stopped and it was just coincidental that he met his drug dealer at mtge shops. It was arranged.

He stopped for 2 years and started taken opiates DFFS again on 13 May during lockdown.

He has stopped again for 2-3 weeks.

It is a roller coster living with an addict honest.

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Well said! I still happy he did Not get to buy. It has been great whilst he has been off even it’s just 2-3 weeks.

But I take It judging by the responses he has not fully committed to stopping quite yet!

Maybe the longer he is off he will stay off ?

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Thanks for the clarity.

Not sure why someone cleans up again. For 2-3 weeks and then try’s to buy again.

What a waste of a life

I have support virtual meeting CBT outselling and this site brillant !

Thanks

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I agree but pigs might fly first . Will keep you all posted.

Big thanks too

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It’s good you guys are doing so well. Amazing ???? keep up the good work life’s good if you know how to live it as they say

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He stopped for 2 years then relapsed and has stopped again for 2-3 weeks. Surely that’s not another relapse! Surely that’s him just trying to hook up again.

He did not get the drugs because of me. But I can’t watch him forever.

Either he is clean and trying to stay clean or he is using end of story.

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Well! I just foiled an arranged drug buy between my son and drug dealer!

My son is protesting his innocent OMG????????????

Now all that trust has went out the window

After all the systems of withdrawals for weeks and promises

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Cheers 🙂

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Happy Days then !

I am pleased but apprehensive.

Thanks for response

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I reckon he has been taking 30 DFS a day since 13 May

He has also taken diazepam within that time span !

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Hello Folks

In respect of previous posts in relation to my adult son with dual diagnosis he has said that he will stop taking drugs ( relapse on 13 May) and be clean by 31 July.

Well he has now given 2 clean drug test.

He has spent the last 10- 14 days on the toilet. There are days he eats lots and some days he does not.

Whilst I am delighted I am wondering how long this phase will last and what I can do to help him get through this.

Any views?

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