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He’s mean to a lesser extent without me saying anything. And annoying. He repeats the same normal sentence 5 times, no joke, and then when I tell him he has said that already, he goes “Yeah, but” and then repeats it again. His eyes go in twenty different directions, his words slur, and he can barely walk. So when I tell him that’s enough, that’s when things ultimately go bad.

I came home the other day from a paint class, and he surprised me by being wasted, and the first thing he does is laugh at my painting. He just becomes this mean other person.

When he is sober, he says that he doesn’t mean any of the things he says while drunk, but then where do they come from? I’m the “fucking bitch” that fights him as I pour his alcohol down the drain. I’m the problem for freaking out because he was doing nothing but having a good time.

Im glad you “snitched”. Too bad he can’t take money from them anymore…boohoo. Are they supportive in any way? I mean, them stopping giving them money is supportive in itself.

My guy’s family definitely drinks too much. And they dont address issues ever. They ignore things. I reached out to his mom the other night bc I was afraid and clueless on what to do. She never answered me. She told him the next day that she wants me to stop texting her our business. I cried for him after he said that. I said that I’m sorry I reached out to the woman that birthed you, someone I thought would care about your wellbeing. I reached out to her not to tattle. I wanted her to care about helping her son. Instead, her response was to ignore me and tell him she wants me to leave her out of it. He has no support other than me, apparently.

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LOL a set up… that is beyond words. What would you gain from setting him up? As if you need a reason to start another fight. And if a supernatural being/God set him up, then he should definitely call the Pope. Why ignore such a miraculous thing?! “Well would you look at that! How’d that get there?” That’s hilarious – in a morbid sense.

Yeah. It was a blow finding that out. I just sat there after taking the sip. I felt him watching me silently. And I tried so damn hard to not cry. But it eventually broke me. 3 hour tear filled argument commenced.

Dude is snoring his ass off now. Finally came to bed. It’s 8am here. I should be sleeping.

Still can’t get over your guy’s thing. “Who put that coke there?!” Sighhh.

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LOL a set up… that is beyond words. What would you gain from setting him up? As if you need a reason to start another fight. And if a supernatural being/God set him up, then he should definitely call the Pope. Why ignore such a miraculous thing?! “Well would you look at that! How’d that get there?” That’s hilarious – in a morbid sense.

Yeah. It was a blow finding that out. I just sat there after taking the sip. I felt him watching me silently. And I tried so damn hard to not cry. But it eventually broke me. 3 hour tear filled argument commenced.

Dude is snoring his ass off now. Finally came to bed. It’s 8am here. I should be sleeping.

Still can’t get over your guy’s thing. “Who put that coke there?!” Sighhh.

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Yeah, thinking about what they do when they are off on their bender is not the healthiest, but I’m guilty of constantly doing it.

Yeah, God forbid you ruin their good time. Because you’re the problem, not what they’re doing to make you feel that way. It’s wild how they can try to blame you for how they react to you being upset that they’re abusing. It makes no sense.

My partner went to get me McDonalds, came back with a drink that I eyed suspiciously and asked to have a sip. Super strong drink that he made from hiding booze in his car. But I’m not supposed to get upset about that apparently… I’ve FORCED him to hide it… Give me a break.

I can’t understand how I got to this point. You go into a relationship, fall in love, and then somehow you’re here. If fate exists, then I want to know what we did to deserve this cosmic prophecy.

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Everything you say makes sense. I relate so well. Usually I freak out on him too. Walking away is my choice as of one day. lol But you’re right. It seems like they are making the choice for us. My head tells me I don’t deserve this. My heart keeps me here. But the more time passes, it feels like I have to let him go.

Yours hasn’t come home? Is that often something that happens for you?

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It does drive me crazy! Do you still try to tell him you want him to stop? I’m at the point now where I just walk away from him if I see him drinking. I don’t want any part of it. But I don’t know how that’s helpful. It just saves me the pain of having to deal with it in the moment. What’s your recent plan of action?

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He tells me not to give up on the relationship. But I can’t keep living like this. I don’t feel like he’s trying.

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I hear you.

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