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Buster1234

I’m so glad I read your post, I feel your pain.i have a 38 year old who is now taking crack cocaine, I look at him and don’t even see the son I know. I’ve watched him go from the perfect child to an adult I don’t even recognise anymore. We have tried everything to support him and try to get him off the drugs only to find out he was doing it in my house. I have had drug dealers at my door knocking for money, I have had 4masked men smash down my door and come into my house looking for him, all of this was done in front of myself and my grandchildren. We have tried to get him into rehab and when the place was available he was no where to be soon so he lost it. He steals and robs to feed his habit has been in and out of prison and nothing helps. At first you try to ignore try to convince yourself it’s not happening, now I look at him and my heart bleeds asi know I have lost him to the drug. He gets arrested and gives my address, even though he doesn’t live here so I get the police here looking for him all the time. He’s lost every home he has had , blames me for my lack of support and that’s his reason for taking it, but I honestly don’t know what else I can do.

I hope that your son does take the bed and it does work. It’s a horrible thing to say as I wouldn’t wish this on any family but I am glad I’m not the only one , as I know I’ve done everything I can but as a parent you can’t help feeling where did I fail him.

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Hi, I’m new on here, my son like yours is homeless and addicted to hard drugs. He’s 35 and it breaks my heart. We have tried everything, I’m frightened to show him love now as he sees this as a weakness .

He constantly blames me, says it s my fault I don’t understand, never helped him… This of course is not true, ive had him live with me, he steals from me, ive even had masked men smash there way in my house and threaten myself and my grandchildren. I just wanted to read somewhere that I’m not the only one,

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