[cherry54]

Thats all you can do is try and hope that they relise the need help or want it. Its so hard as a carer and mentally draining there is only so much you can do if they not willing to help themselves

[cherry54]

Its an awful situation to be in my mother in law is currently drinking a bottle of vodka a day she doesnt eat anything it is such a worry. Unfortunately we have tryed everything to get her better but they have to want it themselves medical staff have told us no matter what we do to try and help if she doesnt want to chamge nothing will work. I suffer really bad anxiety and all the stress of this has a big impact on my health. Sometimes you have to put yourself and children first and do what is best for you.

[cherry54]

Hi no she doesnt she says she wants to stop but doesnt do anything about it she says she can do it herself which she has proved over and over again she cant. We dont no what to do anymore she doesn’t know day from night half the time now her memory is really being affected. She doesnt eat anything at all its awful

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