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Still the same really he took my car a few days ago and has got me speeding fine so more money I have to find.
I’m so drained from it all. The social worker says 1 thing then in the next breath another. Im sick of all the crap im getting and its not my actions that’s caused it all. He says he wants help and so far he’s done all the right things but it’s not helping me. Everyone seems to want a piece of me and I’m sick of it.
How are you ?
Thank you. No you haven’t turned me against him, your just sharing your own experiences. Yesterday he rang the doctor for help a first for him they gave him a number to call and he did much to my surprise. They also said they would ring today to do a assessment and he answered again to my surprise now the next step is he has to go in to meet with someone but that is over a week away that will be a huge test. Since the incident he does seem to be a bit better obviously he’s still on it but he can’t be on as much as he was before because he hasn’t gone away long enough to. And I’m not giving him any money ive told him he has to pay back what he’s had before.
He called the doctor for help yesterday and he’s had an assignment today unfortunately they can’t actually see him until over a weeks time but this is a first to actually reach out for help. Im not holding my breath but I won’t lie I hope this is the beginning of the end.
It does sort of like crack with the going hot and the irritatabilty. It’s just the pain he says he’s in that throws me off.
No it doesn’t matter which he’s as you say it’s disgusting. He’s not open about he goes round the houses about it. But he’s never been a talker especially if he’s in the wrong. It isn’t his choice to come down off it im just refusing to fund it. He’s stolen from me and my children in order to fund it.
My ex is a crack addict has been for about 19 months. He’s totally destroyed our family and left me to with the path of destruction he’s left us with. I want to help him on one and I hate him on the other. I have suspicions now that he maybe be on heroin too. Although I’ve found no proof. Because you’ve said you’ve seen them gone cold turkey what is it like ? Because this is the bit that’s making me think it’s heroin withdrawal and not crack
You guys are so brave. This is undoubtedly the worst thing I’ve ever gone through. My ex he’s on crack but now I’m starting to believe he’s on heroin too. How do i find out ? The reason I believe this is when he wakes up he says his stomach is killing him, like someone is punching him in the stomach and he says his legs hurt and sometimes he can’t move for the pain. I was told it’s heroin that does that not crack. Do any of you know if that’s true ?
It’s horrible isn’t it ? They have no idea what they put us through. He came at 11.40 last night someone has slashed him. He has no consideration fornme or the kids
I am trying to think positive about i think it’s because was with him for 18 years near enough and being without him completely seems strange although I know I lost him a year ago. I never thought someone could cause you so much pain and suffering and yet for some bizarre reason you still love them. I know trouble is coming his way because he owes money and there’s absolutely nothing I can do about it
A hundred percent. Well today I’ve had a call from the solicitor about the non molestation order it’s going to court tomorrow to be finalised and yet again I feel like the bad guy but it’s what social services wanted. Now we’ll not be allowed any contact whatsoever not even text. Deep down I know it’s for the best but it feels like a knife to chest. I feel so controlled by everyone, I don’t even feel like an adult anymore it’s all about what everyone else wants. But I guess he’s had a year to change his ways and he hasn’t so maybe it’s just me being weak and pathetic.
Hope things your end are ok xx
Thank you
I just wish all thi would stop, I need to stop caring and focus on how I’m going to give my children a Christmas. I never thought in a million years I would be going through this. I feel so used and cheated. I can honestly say if it wasn’t for my kids I wouldn’t be here. I hate getting up everyday feeling like this.
No far from ok but nothing I can do is there? He’s turn into a complete low life.
He’s clearly sold the switch. What hurts is he would of known it was a Christmas present and he’s done it anyway.
That’s why he’s disappeared again and switched his phone off.
I really wish I felt amazing ????
I’ve been such an idiot I allowed him back in when I shouldn’t of and I bought my daughter a switch for Christmas. Well she doesn’t have it now I hate this so much. I’m struggling to make ends meet and he’s done this.
Why do I keep giving him the benefit of the doubt ?
Hi Holly Bush
I could be better i feel like I’m trapped when he’s around im anxious of anyone seeing him and when he’s not im anxious about where he is, has he came to any harm. He’s currently begging for some money and it makes me feel on edge.
How are you ?