Thank you for all for your comments, which have been very helpful and much comfort. I will go onto the recommended web site, thank you for that. My heart goes out to anyone affected by drugs and alcohol. Our journey’s may be different, but I can certainly relate to all this. I know in my heart there is nothing I can do for my loved ones, certainly not until they can help themselves, but it is agony watching them self destruct. Once again thank you all for kind words of support.