[concerned-mum]

Hi, I know exactly how you feel i had myself in the same situation yesterday…I swear to myself that im not gonna help financially but then you feel that if you dont there own situation gets worse which impacts on you anyway….but where do you draw the line my son will come out with the most amazing elaborate stories to get money..yesterday was the final straw for me he had again borrowed money and did nt get it back in time for a direct debit so now im going overdrawn and guess what since he has the money i aint heard a single thing from him…phone is switched of etc….Im sure u know all to well…My thoughts are with you i know exactly what ur going through. xx

[concerned-mum]

Hi, thankyou all for your comments..its nice to suddenly not feel so alone in all this…I have battled this for three years with my son…I too come from a hardworking family…I work permanent nights and juggle that round a three year old. My eldest son is an engineer and works hard..no problems there he still lives at home..But everyone else has washed their hands of my middle son his own father barely bothers so feel like everything is landed on my shoulders. He has lost so much weight it breaks my heart to see him this way he has been in prison for breaching orders and a massive long list of other stuff. I have stood by him constantly but get a constant array of abuse. He has been evicted from his flat but is still squatting there and tried telling me he is clean..He went missing couple weeks ago and found him out of it in his flat..he woke and said he was just sleeping i accused him of still taking drugs which he denied until i picked a bag up from his table and held it in front of his face….he literally grabbed me and physically through me out the door. I feel so alone in all this

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