[confusedcom83]

This is true, I am sorry to hear this, my partner is the same age and has also been doing this for a very long time. I don’t think he has stolen yet but he has spent an awful lot of money on his addiction and sees no problem with it.

We had a long conversation the other day he asked for me to stop doing two things as this is meant to be the reason why he does it, even though he was taking drugs long before I came on the scene. I asked for one in return, that he does some research on addiction and makes up his own mind on it. It lasted hours as he decided last night to go straight from work in to town sending me a message saying it won’t be one of those nights that you worry about me and then rolled in at 8am this morning, I have been so worried. He has never been this late. I kept my calm with him even though it appeared he wanted to start an argument. I told him I was done and I can’t live like this anymore, he changed his tune and said he will try he just hasn’t dealt with the pregnancy well. Then I got verbal abuse because he was going to be late for work and I needed a minute to help him look for his keys and then had more abuse thrown because I didn’t know where his sun glasses were. I can’t cope anymore

[confusedcom83]

Wow, it’s seems as if I am about to live your situation. Been together 18 months but he has had numerous contacts with other women. Doesn’t care or want to know about me when on drugs and drink. Found out I am pregnant something he has said he has always wanted, and since been on two major binges and he seems to be taking more coke now. He lies all the time and I am unsure what to believe and what not to as the sad thing is I think he believes his lies himself.

[confusedcom83]

Hey, I have only just joined and reading your post seems similar to my own. My partners mood swings are hard to live with and everything is made out to be my fault. I also have never tried drugs and this is all alien to me. I don’t really have any advice as I am struggling with dealing with my own situation. Just wanted to say you aren’t alone I have been close to giving up on my partner, but for some reason I can’t. I hope it all works out

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