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Kick him out. Put your children first. Tell him if he doesn’t quit or go and speak to his doctor if he can’t quit by himself. Tell him if he isn’t prepared to do this for the sake of his child and your other children then he cannot live with you and that you are not prepared to put the children through hell living his addiction. It will be very hard but you can do it. Lock him out next time he goes off on one. Don’t let him in and call the police if he won’t leave you alone. He will never get help or stop if you let him carry on doing what he wants and coming back to you making empty promises. Hope you have good support from family and friends who can help you with your situation. Be strong
40k. My god. That is so much money. Surely you don’t have any choice other than the police. Really feel for you and your family. Think you should speak to the police for advice and protection. It seems like the situation is out of control and to run up a debt of that amount your son must be doing a lot of drugs. He needs to know that you do not have this kind of money and you have no choice other than the police.
So sorry that you have to go through this. Have you tried talking to your dad when he is sober? You could tell him exactly how you are feeling and ask him if he will get help as you need a dad and want him to be a grandad to your children one day. Drugs and alcohol ruin the life of so many people. It sounds like you have your head screwed on and will not be following in your dads footsteps so that is something to be thankful for. Hope you are able to talk to him and he may think about your words and take some action.