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  • in reply to: Student accommodation #28463
    countrypumpkin
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    Hello, I will keep in touch and let you know how things go. Thank you once again for all your advice and support. I truly hope you can move forward yourself especially with the house situation. It is so important to feel in your home and not threatened by anyone whatever their reason. Wishing you happiness for the future.

    in reply to: Student accommodation #28457
    countrypumpkin
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    Good morning, so sorry to hear about your problems. Your advice really makes sense and you sound a very responsible person. I need to be strong in this situation and, as you say, not accept her aggressive behaviour. Under no circumstances is it acceptable. I have thought about my situation a lot over the last few days and had time to reflect on what has been happening. Although keeping busy takes your mind off things, it doesn’t solve any problems. I now realise that I cannot solve these problems and cannot accept her behaviour. I love her dearly but sometimes love is not enough. I tried to put her aggression down to the Cannabis smoking. I have known of people who do smoke and it does not appear to interfere with their lives. Whatever her reasons for her behaviour and attitude towards me it absolutely not acceptable anymore. I hope you can move forward with your life and find happiness again. Thank you so very much for your support and positive advice.

    in reply to: Student accommodation #28439
    countrypumpkin
    Participant

    Hello, I have contacted the police once and they told me if I could make a statement they would take some action. I didn’t do this as I thought it might make things worse. I really don’t know if she has emotional issues that she is struggling with or the Cannabis use has made her depressed and violent. Thank you again for getting back to me. I am female and 61. The thought of being hit at my age is awful,

    in reply to: Student accommodation #28435
    countrypumpkin
    Participant

    Hello again, the house she wanted to share is no longer available. She really despises me for my decision. She has said really nasty and abusive things and has also hit me on many occasions. I think her Cannabis use has increased. As far as I know, the others used Cocaine, and other hard drugs. The whole drugs and living arrangements have ruin our relationship.

    in reply to: Student accommodation #28425
    countrypumpkin
    Participant

    Good morning, thanks for your reply. I have spoken to her and she doesn’t accept that I would be acting in her best interests. Our relationship is not in a good place. Yes, I would be paying towards the accommodation. She started using Cannabis last Sumner and I noticed a change in her attitudes and personality. Thank you again for your support. Is is very much appreciated.

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