[curlygirl]

Hi Ash

Thanks so much for your message. It does help to know I’m not alone in this! I can fully relate. Tbh I don’t even want to take him to a family wedding later this year, because I know he’ll ruin it for me. It’s a sad situation when that is the reality I’m facing.

I have to try to get him to see another way of life, I’m hoping he’ll agree to go to a meeting, even if just online.

Really appreciate you getting in touch ????

[curlygirl]

Thanks Dan I really appreciate your help. I’m planning on discussing it this weekend… I’m keeping everything crossed it won’t be a bad one… but it is a bank holiday ????

[curlygirl]

Thank you so much for explaining. I will do some investigating about what’s available locally to us.

Well done on turning your life around ????

[curlygirl]

Really appreciate your reply, thank you. Firstly congratulations on getting yourself clean. Such an achievement and you should be really proud. And how great that you can use your experience to help others. Thank you.

I can tell the difference between him being on coke and just drinking. I can’t explain it, it’s just something about his face and his movements. He can’t lie to me and he’s stopped trying! But yes the excuses are endless.

The “problem” is that we are fairly comfortable financially, not rich by any means, but he earns decent money and believes it’s his right to spend it how he likes. I don’t know how he’ll ever hit “rock bottom” because even when we briefly split a few years ago and he promised me it would all end, it didn’t.

Is the anonymous programme based in religion? Because if so I don’t think he’ll do it.

Thanks again for getting in touch ????

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