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Bloody hell.. Hope he is OK. That tramadol alone is lethal stuff. I can see why people get addicted to that..
That’s a big problem when u meet some 1 else who does harder drugs I’ve always said its who u knock around with and that’s how u get hooked on things.
Thanks for that. Had a real shite day today overthinking too much about that stuff. I’ve prayed about 5 times today and meditated a few. If I didn’t have this programme with CA I would of given up by now. So it’s definitely working.
Thank you for that.
Ermmm
I guess only u will know that answer lol. Its all about trial and error I guess. They say tough love is the best. But then some always get worse from this. Just him proving to you he is trying is a start. So start asking for proof maybe
Well have a good positive weekend anyway, thanks very much ????
Just try and make him aware the good things that the money can go on, holidays, and trips and your daughter.
The dreams happen with most addicts, I’ve always had them. They stopped for a while. Its just your mind testing you, and tricking you into wanting it. Try and have a relaxing weekend. Have some fun with your daughter ????
Just try and make him aware the good things that the money can go on, holidays, and trips and your daughter.
The dreams happen with most addicts, I’ve always had them. They stopped for a while. Its just your mind testing you, and tricking you into wanting it. Try and have a relaxing weekend. Have some fun with your daughter ????
Ye it’s just one vicious circle.
Normally people I know, and I have aswell. If they have any weed, they smoke this when the coke as run out. It’s to take the edge off the comedown and probably try and get them to sleep. Theres no point in having coke feeling up or off your tits and smoking weed at the same time. There totally opposite drugs. One is and up and the other is a down or relaxer. So weed normally comes after coke. But some do have it together.
I guess it could slow you down and mellow you out so your not as bad from the coke. If this makes sence
It could be because of the cocaine use he suffers with anxiety. Or he did before and that’s why he took coke. To boost confidence and then it causes anxiety. Bit strange how it causes confidence then anxiety lol.
What would the weed hide sorry?
I think you really need put your foot down with him now and lay some ground rules. I feel like coming over and giving him a mouth full haha.
Does he have a well paid job?
How much is spending on it?
It’s not your fault we all make bad choices. But I really wouldn’t put up with it if he’s still like this in a years time and he’s not really trying.
I’ve not beat it yet. I was having bad dreams I was using last night and feel annoyed this morning. So I just have be careful this weekend
I think you really need put your foot down with him now and lay some ground rules. I feel like coming over and giving him a mouth full haha.
Does he have a well paid job?
How much is spending on it?
It’s not your fault we all make bad choices. But I really wouldn’t put up with it if he’s still like this in a years time and he’s not really trying.
I’ve not beat it yet. I was having bad dreams I was using last night and feel annoyed this morning. So I just have be careful this weekend
Funny you ask that because I’d always deny it soon as she asked me. And she could tell I was on it then storm bed sometimes. Then I’d go wake her up at 4am or even earlier and say.. I’m sorry your right I’d did use it. As it sent me on a downer I told her everything this was more or less everytime. I think this is because I really want to stop.
I’d normally but 2 bags at 1st. Toilet every 30 mins. The 1st time your nose just becomes really runny. I’ve always had hay-fever as a kid and problems with my nose so I have always got tissue on me lol Im constantly blowing my nose. This has been since primary.
But yes course the next day you will be blowing your nose alot. It will have all dry coke up there and dry snot and so on. And your constantly blowing it. Plus I had blood everytime I blew. But not bleeding bad. It just takes away the inside gradually I imagine
Thanks for that.
It is possible, but if you are bad on coke or have it, 1 little bit is nothing, it will lead to another bag then another bag. When the bag runs out u just want more and more until you have no money or dealer won’t give u any lays. After each line or key it last 20 mins roughly. But the more you have and the longer you take it, you just get worse and worse. In behaviour, anxiety, paranoia, eyes popping out. I’d think its pointless him just having a bit at work. But that’s just guessing. Just keep an eye on his behaviour. No drinking what so ever as this triggers coke. His eyes popping out, anxiety, talking alot, not looking at you in the eyes, staying up late, loss of appetite.
Just buy a drug testing kit of ebay or amazon and tell him take it. And that you just want piece of mind, and then you will both get on better. You just need to know. If my gf asked me now, I’d say fair enough, as I know I haven’t took anything. Just make sure he’s not eaten anything with poppy seeds in. Like certain bread. It comes up you have had heroin.
Trust is the best thing in a relation ship, so just have a amicable chat about it all.
Tell him staying in a hotel isn’t gonna work one bit. If I was you I’d tell him hotels are banned or it’s over. If he wants to beat his addiction it needs to be at home with the support of his family.
I don’t know you bit you come across as too nice and leniant. It’s not a bad thing. But he has responsibilitys and a son. He can’t go hiding in hotels. I’m not perfect and I’ve done some bad stuff. But you don’t deserve to be treated like this. Try and get a good sleep tonight.
Any updates on him? Have u been to the hotel?
Thanks for that 🙂
Addicts are good liars, and I would of done the same if it means me getting kicked out, I think most of us would lie.
Just read the reviews of the test, and get the best one. What’s a go pro? A camera?
I have a downstairs toilet, weekends I used in there only lol. It’s crazy how we all think alike.
I only bet on sites when I was on coke aswell. Not all do it. But it seems like he uses in the house on his own. Which was my problem. It’s embarrassing really but what happens what a Councillor told me is that.. At 1st it was party’s or pubs, using going out. Then I stopped going out. But I was addicted by then and didn’t know. Then I started using on my own downstairs. Getting it dropped off at 4am. Getting it posted through the letterbox or on the wheel of my car.
You should always go with your gut feelings. Why the hell is he sniffing all the time. Apart of me feels guilty telling people these things who are not addicts, because I’m an addict and I wouldn’t want to see me on the streets. But he obviously needs help. If he is doing it. And on his own. If he refuses to take a test. There’s your answer. If he says the test don’t work, there’s your answer.
BTW it’s so easy to hide it. It’s only a small bag. I use put my empty ones in tissue and flush down the toilet. When it’s wearing off it sends u depressed for days and suicidal in alot of people. This is one of the main reasons I want to quit.