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Well your mental if you want to stay with him. Ive got a coke problem. But im using about once a month. But it makes you dissapear for days. I dont because my gf will kill me. But being on that stuff for days is mental. And you do stupid things.
And its a typical story that. He dont want you, but he dont want anyone else to have you and gets back with you.
If you want my honest opinion. If hes not admitting he has a problem and is not prepared to change id leave. But i think you should leave now while you have no kids together. You can do better and you will get better. It just takes time. Spend time with friends and family to forget about him.
If hes completely broken you. I wouldnt go back hes just going to keep doing it. You need to go out with your mates and try and move on. Does he do it alot after coke, ignoring u for days?
You ok tash? You had a good weekend? Any good news on your bf?
Me personally id leave him. If hes done that the whole time you was together. He will never be trusted. Hes obviously off his head at home messaging these girls.
Whats he said?
Me and my partner both cheated years ago. It just eats you up inside. If we didnt have kids we probably would go are own way. We both still bring things up from 5 to 8 year ago. Its not healthy. So my advice is tell yourself: your better than this and move on !
Hiya mate. Im the same as you. Im having it roughly every 3 to 4 weeks. This year i did 2 month without once. I really cant stand it any more. The downers and sometimes suicidal thoughts. I have researched a lot how to stop and it does work.
So if you really want to stop. You yourself have to want to and admit your an addict. Which you are the amount of times you are having it.
Then you cant drink any alcohol! This is the main trigger to get coke!
Delete all your dealers , friends/ family who do coke out of your phone book. Come off social media, as you can message them on there. Blocking wont work as you will unblock them.
Your brain is so clever it wants the coke. So it will trick you into getting it. So you need to avoid trigger spots. Places were you used , places were you picked coke up. Go a different route.
Then you need to get some new hobbies to replace the coke, so it keeps you busy.
Ive took up reading, i go to the gym 5 days a week, i do some decorating. Plenty of walks with the dog. Do a daily plan and tick it off each day. Believe me you will start to feel a lot better.
Download castbox. And listen to addiction podcast. They have some good stories of addicts talking about there lifes and i feel this helps. You can watch some on you tube.
But it depends how bad you want this. Its hard avoiding people. You can be clean for 3 week. Then some1 who sells it will walk past you when they never walk past you! You get tested all the time.
Feel free to ask me out buddy
Hiya mate. Im exactly the same as you. I cant stand the stuff. Im lapsing every 3 to 4 week roughly. Im 2 week clean again today. You could say i have it under control now.
But if you want to stop or control this, you need to.. delete all your dealers nums now. All friends and family to do with coke. Get a new number if you can. Come off all social media. Dont drink any alcohol. Dont even spend any time what so ever with anyone that uses.
And you need to.take up new hobbies now. Do a weekly plan. With each day doing something the time u normally have the coke. You can do diff things like.. decorate, gym, walk, play darts, read, something that you want to do.
Your just stuck in a rut and a shitty routine. Break.the routine and do something new.
I listen to loads of addiction recovery podcast and watch some on you tube. They help alot. Feel free to ask me out
I do lol. At night. 36 🙁
I did some sanding lol its hard doing it at the weekends when i work nights. So ive booked a week off work, and will do it all then. Im looking at doing a plastering course aswell. Im having a early midlife crisis lol. I wish i did something like this when i was younger.
Dont do that for a lad. No guys worth that. Get something eat and be with friends and fam who love you and respect you.
Just leave him to it then. Your just going to make yourself ill. I know its cheesy. But time is a great healer, and everything happens for a reason. Just keep your self occupied so your not over thinking about it.
Im not into grapefruit.. parma violet is lurrsh haha.
Same as u except opera lol
I like some female rock bands. Your heard of halestorm? There great .
And female vocal trance and meat loaf haha.
Works same old. I enjoy it though lol.
Are you good at making currys? Or is it out of a jar? Lol
Go out saturday night, looking the dogs bollocks and get him jealous lol. That use to work for me. I always go back crawling haha.
Or just ignore him and not show you are hurting
Ahhh… i get you now.. im a bit slow haha..no i deleted so incase you thought id mither lol.
I do love a pink gin n tonic now tho hahah…
Just have a coffee instead.. i cant stand wine!
So what music are you in to?
What studying are you doing?
What u mean were you kept mine?lol
Ye i imagine it would. All the toxins and that. Just drink loads of water.
Ive never been a big drinker. But if i drink. I drink a lot haha
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