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Any luck today tash?
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Ye course. But i deleted yours lol so you will have to send me a text if u want and ill save it.
Just search in you tube theta binary beats. But you need listen with head phones and just relax. Its hard to explain but in science terms… 4 -8 hz sound gets into your sub consious and basically re wires your brain. And helps with addiction and anxiety. Then there is gamma, alpha.. which is like 10-12 hz.. and these make you more focused and really aware and good for learning if you get me. Have a google and read up on binary beats.
Ill send you a link anyway now.
You need more than 1 song to workout to lol. You cant have a 4 minute workout haha
Well just keep trying and make him aware what hes doing to himself. Its a slippery slope what hes doing. Hopefully he will see sence with the coke and you.
I think if he knows whats good for him he will come crawling back.. if you could see into the future now and say in 5 years time, hes still having coke all the time. Would you still be make it work with him?
Ive been good. Reading a new book. And im listening to binary beats? Have you heard of them? They help for.addiction and other things. Its music meditation. Im feeling a lot happier and better with it. Sounds daft i know haha.
It will get easier with the therapy plan
Sounds like his head is up his ass. I wish my misses was like you lol.
Just give him a couple of days or something. He will come round
Have you told him you want to make it work and help him? Whats he saying to that? I know its hard. It always is splitting up. But just try and go out with your mates this weekend. And you try and have some fun
How old is he? Its not good leaving needles everywere. You should always lock them away. I recan and i could be wrong, hes not in the right frame of mind making decisions, regarding you 2, while he is on the juice. I remeber i use be feeling great on them, thinking im better off single and a load of other crap aswell. They make me feel horny as fuk and most people.
I remeber leaving my gf one week on them. Soo mixing them with coke, his head is going to be over the place.
It defeats the object of being on roids and having coke. Because the weekend comes and you get off your head and then you lose some size, because of not eating and sweating.
What did he say when u went round?
Its not good at all.. and mixing coke with alcohol isnt good to. It produces another drug in your body called co ethadrol… i think its called that, but that is what stops alcohol effecting you when coked up. So you can drink loads and not get pissed.
Id just speak to him and see what he wants. And if he dont want to be with you, i know it will be hard but it probably might be a blessing in disguise.
I honestly dont know. There would obviously be a reason. If hes making these decisons while on coke then its the coke really.
If hes dumping you while on coke and saying nasty crap then its the coke.
If hes all over you the next day and apologising, he is regretting what he has done on the coke. But i dont know the full ins and outs.
But steroids did that to me in the past. I dumped my misses thinking.. the grass is greener. Roids do mess with your head tbh when i think about it. Your an emotional wreck.
I dont want to this.. but.. if hes not coming home and hes lying were he has been. Do you not think he could be up to something? Im only saying this because of that and with changing his mind all of a sudden about kids and marriage. I know coke makes you do stupid things.
Hi tash, im the same as your bf, i have a problem with coke and i do steroids once a year. But the steroids have never been a problem with me and my gf.
Im lapsing every 3 or 4 week on coke. Im doing my best to stop as i cant stand the stuff anymore. It makes me depressed and suicidal thoughts when im coming down.
But that can also mess with your bf head to be honest. Because of the roids and the hormones.
Anyway…your right in what your saying about .. wanting him to stay in to get better and dont want him to use.
But alcohol is the main trigger to get cocaine. If he doesnt drink for 18 month and no come, and then he goes out with lads.. c
Of course he is going to have coke.
When i was clean for 3 month. You tell yourself you are ok and better now. Believe me you are not! Cocaine is a sneaky drug, it will harrass you for the 1st 3 month of quitting, through dreams, smells, places. Then it thinks ill give you a break , then 9 month down the line its tricking you again to get it. This stuff is like the devil.
It looks like your just going have to decide that, if you want to get back with him, you have to put up with the crap that goes with it. Because if he wants to go out with his mates, who obviously use. He will to.
Or just move on yourself.
You never know, he just might grow out of it. Alot of it, is the people you hang around with. But my biggest regret is not going college and learning a trade, because i failed my GCSEs. Hes young, and he has his whole life ahead of him. Maybe make him aware of people like me, who regret alot of things ive done. Good luck
This sounds like me when i was 16 with my mum and dad. I was bad on cannabis from 14 to 19. I quit it in the end, and im 36 now, it just made me do nothing in life and lazy. I also did a few other things like lsd and ectacy. But only a few times. I ended up punching holes in doors in my mum and dads house. At the time i blamed it on that i was the middle child and i got picked on. But it probably was the drugs mixed up with me only being a teenager and not developed full yet.
Cocaine is a big cause for depression and suicidal thoughts.Especially when its wearing off. I wouldnt recomend any teenager or any1 taking that stuff. But i do mainly mean a teenager, only because if you get addicted to that at such a young age.. its not good at all.
When i was younger, i stopped because i wanted to, it ruined me as a person. I was thin, didnt fo out much only to a friends. My chest was bad.
Your son will only quit when he is adamant that he wants to. You cant force it on him. He will just go worse. Especially as a teenager. They always want to do the opposite you say. Me personally id just make him aware what hes doing to himself and the risk hes taking.
But that is entirely up to you. My mum and dad just went on and on at me, and i just did the opposite.
Did he go to college?
Are u still up mate